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My views of those aged 65 plus

I place people 65 and older in two categories. Those in the age group of my parents, and those in the age group of my grandparents.

I think of those in the age group of my parents to be finally "happy," for the most part. Their children are most likely out on their own, and they find they are able to start projects they have wanted to do for years. Most of the people I know that are of retirement age are actually still working, and those that aren't working are at least volunteering on a regular basis. I picture them remodeling their homes, and finally finding the time to work in their gardens. Many of them allready have young grandchildren to keep them excited. Even though 65 and 70 years old sounds "old" to me, I would never classify those of that age as actually acting old. This is the age of people I find myself turning to for advice and help.

I also picture those of my grandparents' generation. I must admit, I am very fortunate to have a grandmother who is well into her '90s. In fact, she is the oldest person I have ever met. Therefore, my views of other people her age are a bit skewed. She tries to be as active as possible, still taking her morning walks with other her age. I know, however, that everyone her age isn't quite as healthy. I realize that many of her friends have allready passed away. I imagine that it must be difficult for them to see all of their friends and relatives pass away. I picture people in their '80s and '90s going to stitch 'n chat activities, or playing bridge at a local community center. I suppose it is a good idea to be active with a full schedule at this age. My grandmother seems to cope fairly well with death, and I would assume that others who have so many years of experience and wisdom would fare the same way. I find that I don't have a lot in common with people I've met from this generation. I picture them with completely different political views than I hold as well as disdain for the way my generation live our lives.

I understand that these are very general thoughts based completely from the few people I've had relavent conversations with. Honestly, I don't have much personal contact with the elderly.